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 Post subject: My husband
PostPosted: Tue Jul 13, 2010 9:52 am 
Hi,

I am very unhappy as my husband is having an affair, he hits me and now after I ahve come to know about the affair, he wants to leave me.. I dont want to leave him. Please help me with something were I can keep my husband under my control. I am ready to forgive him for the things in past. But now I can't take this any more I want him to be in my control. I love him a lot I cant think of leaving him. Please help!!!


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 Post subject: Re: My husband
PostPosted: Thu Jul 15, 2010 5:14 am 
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Hi,

I am very unhappy as my husband he is having an affair, he hits me and now after I have come to know about the affair, he wants to leave me.. I dont want to leave him. Please help me with something were I can keep my husband under my control. I am ready to forgive him for the things in past. But now I can't take this any more I want him to be in my control. I love him a lot I cant think of leaving him. Please help!!!


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 Post subject: Re: My husband
PostPosted: Thu Jul 15, 2010 8:41 pm 
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As-Salamo Alaykom,

Anyone who says can bring back your husband is an impostor, he will ask you for your and/or your husband's mother's name and some belongings then performs black magic to fool you that your husband is back, if he does come back it would be because he was witched and therefore once the magic is broken he will hate you and you will never be together again.

My advice to you is to pray during the last third of the night and ask Allah to bring your husband back, donate generously for the sake of Allah and ask Him to return your husband.

Think why your husband prefers the other woman is it something that you can do or is it merely because she is younger and beautiful in his eyes.

If his love to her is unreasonable, i.e. she is ugly and old, she is only after his money, then you could suspect that he was witched to love her; he would have the symptoms of a witched person, he would hate to listen to the Quran and won't pray, in this case you can seek his relatives help in convincing him to pray and maybe get a righteous Sheikh to perform Ruqiah on him.

If his love is reasonable and don't be the judge of that, ask his relatives or someone who knows him and her very well, if it is reasonable and it is unfortunate that he doesn't see you like her, then you can offer to stay with him and accept her as his second wife.

Don't ask for divorce, having another woman in your lives is much better than being divorced, however remind him of your rights on him, or ask someone close to him to remember your rights on him as his wife, if he is a good man he will know your rights and understand your sacrifice to stay with him while he has another wife, if he is bad he will become more arrogant and in that case it might be better that you separate from him but don't ask for that and as I said keep praying to Allah to bring you both closer to each others.

In the unfortunate case that he divorces you, please remember to say the following words:
Inna Lillah Wa Inna Ilayhi Raji'oon, Allahoma Ajorny fy museebaty wa Okhlofny Khayran Menha
We are from Allah and to Him we return, Oh Allah reward me in my disaster and give me better than it.

One of the wives of the Prophet (peace be upon him) said this when her husband died and that's how the Prophet himself (who is way better than her diseased husband) married her.

May Allah guide you in this terrible situation and help you in keeping your husband.


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